Steve - just caught up with your problem.
Unless you are going to do some cunning curved filing on the Hymek's buffers, as Simon suggests, I would really avoid doing anything that spoils the look of this superb model.
I agree with Neil and the others who suggest slightly larger heads on the wagons - the heads on the wagon you have illustrated look correct to me, for the type of wagon that it is, but it should be easy enough to remove the existing heads and substitute some turned larger ones from the likes of MJT or Wizard Models. You could even make them sprung at the same time, if you like.
I'm not convinced that fitting sprung buffers to the Hymek is the answer either, although it could solve other problems when it comes to the length of the links. That may be more easily overcome by a bit of careful pulling out of the Hymek's coupling hook, so as to effectively increase the length available between it and whatever wagon it is coupled to.
Failing that, I'm wondering if some 'Local Operating Instructions' may also help. The prototype railway will always overcome 'issues' like this with a restrictive instruction to the staff, if there is no 'hardware' solution. In your case it could include variations on the following examples:
- 'Wagons of the xxxx type must not be propelled into Down Slag Heap Exchange Sidings at Blogsville Junction'
- ' D7XXX locomotives are prohibited from entering the Up Refuge Siding at Little Bugersworth'
- 'All shunting movements between the Upper Mileage Yard and the Up/Down Reception Road at Artichoke Lane Crossing must not exceed walking pace'
You get the drift....
Failing that, easing the curve by careful removal of the web on the points concerned may be the answer...